Testimony From a Hope's Experience

Hope is one of our rockstar clients who experienced a major shift while following our system. I’m going to let her tell you a little more about herself. Below is an authentic testimony directly from Hope. 

Jessica

What was going on in your life that made you start looking for someone to help you identify your purpose?

Hope

"I felt super stuck in the business I owned when I started looking for a program that would help me realize my accomplishments & value myself. Plus, I was looking for clarity of my purpose. For years I had been working so hard, 10-12 hour days 7 days a week, to prove to myself & others around me that I really could achieve what I set my mind to. Overworking led to overwhelm & burn out. Plus, I felt like a disappointment to everyone I had shared my dream with...especially my husband. After all, he was counting on me to do what I promised. Year after year when my efforts fell short, his trust in me started to wane too. Clearly without trust marriage is even harder. In efforts to mend that relationship I dove deeper into my business to Prove I was trustworthy. I thought “if i can just achieve what I said I would do then he would love me.”

Jessica

What had you tried to solve your problem? 

Hope

"I tried everything from podcasts, books, personal development conferences, personality tests, even therapy. I figured if others found their purpose & relief through these avenues so could I, boy was I let down...every time. Yeah, I got a nugget of info I could use here & there, but nothing revolutionary. I even had fleeting moments of relief, but nothing seemed to get to the core of why I felt stuck. Therefore, I kept running into that proverbial brick wall no matter where I turned."  

Jessica

What made you choose to work with me? 

Hope

"I was nervous to send the message to Jessica that I would like to at least talk because I wondered if this would actually work...I mean nothing else had, what would this? I actually let the message sit in my inbox overnight thinking when I woke up the next morning I would be magically unstuck without receiving help, ha as if. When I saw the message still in my inbox early the next morning, as i questioned myself again & had butterflies in my stomach, I hit send. It felt like a relief to give myself permission to help myself. After all these years of trying on my own I was simply too exhausted to figure this out on my own anymore. It felt relieving to know I was going to talk with someone who could help me personally & even see things that I just couldn’t see because I was in the middle of the muck."

Jessica

What were some of the first changes you began to see? 

Hope

"Some of the first surprising changes I began to see was that what I was thinking was actually showing up in my life...the good & bad things. I’ve heard people talk about this but I didn’t fully understand it until this program. I even read books like the Secret & thought I had a full understanding of my thoughts but it all clicked after I learned how the mind works & I had never considered my unique personality having a huge role in this understanding too." 

Jessica

What are some of the unexpected shifts you've experienced through my program? 

Hope

"I've learned over the years through personal development & personality tests that I was an introvert & a golden retriever & yada yada, but the depth that this program took me too was surprising. I didn’t expect to learn so much about how what I've been thinking (intentionally & unintentionally) really matters & was partly what was keeping me stuck. While I thought I was living outside my comfort zone daily, after all that's where they say you grow, my thoughts were definitely in their comfort zone. I also didn't expect to learn so many details myself & actually appreciate myself, regardless of what others thought. I also didn’t expect to he held by so many people who really care about me for who I am, not what I do."  

Jessica

What was working with me like/what was different about working with me? 

Hope

"Working with Jessica was refreshing. I actually felt heard & understood. She allowed me to just be me & she actually appreciated who I was just for being me, not by what I did or didn’t do. I liked how she incorporated the other coaches too, that was different from anything I’ve ever experienced."

Jessica

How is your life/business different today as compared to before we started working together? 

Hope

"After working with Jessica I feel free to be myself because I understand myself more & what makes me tick. I also understand that not everyone is like me & it’s refreshing to understand how to communicate with others better. I’m actually standing my ground more now around people who I allowed to trample me & my dream. I now understand that the big dream (it’s even bigger & clearer now too) & promise I made years ago is possible now that I’m on the right track. My business is actually taking off now & I’m spending less time ‘working’. I’ve learned it's ok to let things flow & not have a white knuckle control grip on everything I do (actually that was part of my problem)."

Jessica

What would you say to someone who's considering working with me? 

Hope

"For anyone thinking about working with Jessica, I’d say what are you waiting on? This transformation I experienced was worth its weight in gold & definitely worth my sanity & marriage."

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